Stage One: Attraction

Although feelings of attraction are automatic, in order to sustain attraction in a personal relationship we must also be skillful in presenting ourselves in ways that are not just appealing to the order sex but supportive as well.

Expressing Your Most Positive Self
To sustain attraction in stage one, we must express our best and most positive self. Without an understanding of the customs and manners on Venus, a man can put his best foot forward and unknowingly turn a date off.

Asking for Her Number
A man doesn’t realize his power to win her over and become attractive to her. He doesn’t how to start becoming more attractive to her by:
• First initiating eye contact
• Just noticing her
• politely and casually looking her over as she looks away
• being interested in getting to know her
• liking her
• being attracted to her
• taking the risk of introducing himself
• asking some friendly questions
• looking at her when she talks
• giving her his full attention
• complimenting her
• letting her know at the end of the conversation that her would like to call her (It can be so simple to say, “I’d like to give you a call.”)
Whenever a man does something to make a woman feel special, in her eyes becomes more attractive.

How Women Misunderstand Men
Women also misunderstand men. A woman often mistakenly assume that if a man is the right man for her, he will know what she wants and will automatically consider her needs and do the things she does to show that her cares. When he doesn’t fulfill this unrealistic expectation, then she becomes unnecessarily frustrated and discouraged.
On Venus, friends enjoy the opportunity to share freely the mishaps, frustrations, disappointments, and complaints of the week.
A man is attracted to a woman who clearly can be pleased.
After getting to know our best sides, we are ready to deal with the less positive sides of who we are.

When a Woman Gives On a Date
After being receptive to man’s advances and appreciating his efforts, a woman doesn’t owe a man anything.
Distance not only makes the heart grow fonder but gives a man the opportunity to pursue.

Unlocking the Car Door
When a woman is too eager to please, a man doesn’t experience the distance he needs to pursue her.
When a woman reaches across to unlock a man’s door, it defeats the whole purpose of the date and confuses their roles.

Why Women Give Too Much
A woman need never feel obligated to please a man.

Falling in Love Right Away
When a woman falls in love, she may feel as if she is already getting everything she could ever want.